I have decided not to get upset with people or things easily when they don't match up my standard.  I learn to listen from their point of view and their reasoning.  And say it's ok and give them a second chance.  A lot of times things don't match up to my expectations.  I just have to learn everyone has their limitations.  I also need to give other people a break.

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What do I have to be thankful today? My husband kept his promised and took his daughter to watch " The minions 3". He asked me to join.  Then we had dinner. After that he bought raspberry ice-cream.  He said I chose this so we can share.  Very little thing, but very thoughtful of him. He requested a small pop corn for himself.  I bought a medium one for family to share. He got upset and disappointed.  Then I went and bought his own.  My thinking was I didn't want to waste and we will go to dinner later.  He felt his voice wasn't heard and said "I am used to be disappointed by food".  I got a lesson finally.  When it comes to the man of the house, I can't be cheap nor ignore him.
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Ethan is back.  Old routine starts.  I have to keep reminding him doing this and that. Again, he gets frustrated and tears comes down.  I asked him to plan his own schedule of doing math and English excises.  But he kept delaying couldn't keep up with his own planning. I also got upset with Nana couldn't follow my directions.  Why is my life full of frustrations? How do I stay calm when things don't turn out the way I wish them to be?
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